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Episcopal Life welcomes letters and will give preference to those in response to stories. Letters should be no longer than 250 words and must include the writer’s name, address, phone number for verification. Pictures are welcome. Send to Letters, Episcopal Life , 815 Second Ave., New York, N.Y. 10017; or e-mail to letters@episcopal-life.org. All letters will be edited for brevity and clarity.

Amazed at response

My mind was flabbergasted as I related Warren Anderson’s response in the May issue of  Episcopal Life to Leila Richards’ article “Working for peace: Palestinians, Israelis join in protesting Israel’s dividing wall”  in April’s issue. It appears that Mr. Anderson read into it a lot that was not in Richards’ letter. Unfortunately, it all too often appears that anything seeming to be critical of Israel or suggesting that Israel could handle matters differently is taken by some as an argument that Israel has no right to exist. That is irrational and mind-boggling. Many people strongly support Israel’s right to exist as a free and independent state and yet criticize some of her political decisions and actions, just as they criticize some of the decisions and actions of their own government. To accuse them of being anti-Israel or anti-Jewish just increases the problem and masks the real issues.

The Rev. John Blakslee
Hammond, Ind


Praise for issue

Thank you for the finest issue of Episcopal Life I have ever read. From cover to back page, the April issue contained highly informative, open-minded and challenging articles. What a diversity of articles on such a broad range of timely subjects, from so many differing perspectives.

I was especially moved by the articles on Jewish-Christian relations, which was a top priority of my ministry. When I was instituted in my last parish in Miami, I invited a dear rabbi friend and colleague to be preacher for the occasion. The bishop later informed me that several of my new clergy colleagues had questioned the appropriateness of this gesture (i.e., complained). Having shared holy days with our Jewish neighbors during my childhood, and having served as organist in a Jewish congregation during my seminary years, and having been blessed by the personal friendships of several rabbis during my journey, I found this reaction lamentable. Perhaps the April issue will open further the eyes of faith of those who kindle similar prejudices.

Frosting on the cake were the features on “Taking care of business” and Dan Matthews’ article on ethics. It reminded me that he once credited my late father's ministry in a North Carolina mill town with introducing him to Anglicanism and the possibility of a vocation. The entire issue was a wonderful, rich potpourri of informative, helpful and hope-filled resources for our church in troubled times.

The Rev. Robert J. McCloskey, Jr.
Miami Shores, Fla.


Prevent future abuse

Under the necessary pressures and conditions, each of us is capable of the worst acts ever committed. Are we naïve enough to think that only the Germans could have followed Hitler into the Holocaust? Are we so sheltered that we think that only Southerners are capable of owning other human beings for labor use? Do we really believe that the Jews and the Romans were the only people then or now who could and would take part in or turn away from the killing of Christ?

The Roman Catholics call it original sin. We Episcopalians lean towards saying that we are all self-centered and can only escape selfish lives with God’s help. However we put it, the fact is that we are all capable of evil.

In the news has been a disturbing story of American and British guards abusing, torturing, mistreating their helpless captives in Iraq. Reminiscent of the My Lai episode in the Vietnam war, this revelation shakes the foundations of what some of us want to believe is the American superiority among nations in the areas of compassion and fairness. How arrogant of us to believe that, of all humankind, it is only Americans who are immune to the temptations and pressures of war and power.

We are as human as any other people, and we have a moral responsibility to be realistic about what can happen and prepare to prevent it. Our military, under orders and instruction from our political leaders, needs to train, supervise and monitor our troops in the area of treatment of prisoners. Unfortunately, we need to do this in a way that assumes every sailor, soldier and Marine is capable of abusing his or her power. Only through prevention can painful and damaging events such as this be a thing of our past, not our future.

Bill Kolb
Virginia Beach, Va.


Haiti articles appreciated

Fine writing on those Haiti pieces [cover story, “We need you,” May]. They caught the hope and complexity of that incredible place in a powerful way. I was there as a diplomat, 1959-1961, and knew Bishop Voegeli well. Martial law, deaths, survival were staples of daily life. You do the wider church a real service by pointing out these realities, upsetting as they might sometimes be. I have a chapter on Haiti in the spiritual autobiography I am writing, Merrily I Made My Way.

The Rev. Fred Quinn
Salt Lake City


Sanctions hurt Haiti

My parish – Christ Church, Rye, N.Y., has been discussing how to help Haiti.  Your excellent articles failed to emphasize that U.S. actions – sanctions – over the years have exacerbated the poverty in Haiti. Perhaps if the church called on its congregations to write letters to President Bush, Secretary Powell and our representatives in Congress, the bans on importing various donations might be lifted or at least modified.

Emily Minor
Rye, N.Y.


Bishop thankful

Thank you very much for the unprecedented coverage of the latest events in Haiti. The many wonderful stories you published in this latest issue of Episcopal Life (May) prove once again your true love for Haiti, its people, the church and the great professionalism you are well-known for; congratulations. All you have said and showed is true. I cannot emphasize enough how grateful I am for your dedication to help the Diocese of Haiti and its ministry in this very difficult moment. We pray for the whole Episcopal Life staff to be able to continue their efforts to make the whole world know the church at large.

The Rt. Rev. Jean Zache Duracin
Bishop of Haiti


Mary deserves honor

I was gratified to read Bishop Griswold’s thoughtful remarks about the Blessed Virgin Mary in your May issue. My general observation is that the Episcopal Church tends to regard Mary as an essential figure in time past but pays little or no attention to her role in time present. Bishop Griswold helps correct that imbalance by emphasizing Mary’s role in contemporary Christian devotion, both public and private.

It strikes me as ironic that the mother of Jesus should be so neglected by those who claim to be followers of her son. I should think the church would do handsprings in her honor and delight to proclaim her as the spiritual mother of us all. Thanks to Bishop Griswold for pointing us toward Mary’s important role in Christian faith and practice.

The Rev. Robert Terhune
Houston


Business not always better

This is in response to your thoughtful articles on church and business [cover story, “Taking care of business,” April], especially the comments of William Messenger and Kevin Phillips.

Both priests make the point that “the average business is far better run than the average church, far better organized." These men may have more experience and more data to prove this point. My experience with many parishioners over 18 years and especially listening to members of my family is otherwise. My wife, both of my adult children and my son-in-law all work for national retail companies. What they say about the ineptness of the organizations for which they work is amazing. It is possible that their experience is unusual, but I doubt it.

Further, Messenger says "businesses are more directly answerable to their constituents." I don't find large and even some small businesses very responsive to customer needs. They are even less responsive to employee needs. "Treated badly, they leave." Not if there is nowhere else to go.

Certainly there are well-run, ethical businesses, but I doubt they are any more common than well-run churches, colleges or nonprofit agencies. How could we measure that? These priests need to read Barbara Ehrenreich's Nickle and Dimed.

The Rev. Thomas Van Brunt
Delaware, Ohio


‘What a great idea’

I have just read Mary Page Jones’ story "Peacemakers with needles" [May].  My first thoughts were, "What a great idea, and why didn't I think of it!"

I have seen similar dolls made for children about to undergo surgeries in hospital. When my daughters were small, I made Raggedy Ann dolls. I have made them for the church bazaar. I never thought of the children in war-torn areas of the world who have nothing to cuddle. I should have. I was one myself growing up in Great Britain during the Second World War without a dolly.
I hope many, many people respond by getting out their needles and thread; the doll can be easily put together even by those people who do not own a sewing machine.

God bless Mary Page Jones and her very worthwhile efforts. 

Elizabeth Ann Hatfield
Crawfordsville, Ind.


Passion showed love

The April issue of your fine publication contains three essays about the Mel Gibson movie The Passion of the Christ. I disagree considerably with much of what has been written. I am neither a cleric nor an ecclesiastical person. Rather I am a soldier of our nation’s army, one who served 40 years in grades from private to general from 1943 to1983, a period including three wars, WWII, Korea and Vietnam. My contrary opinion comes from experience in command of American soldiers in units from tank platoon to Cold War Corps – the V US Corps in U.S. Army Europe.

As a general rule, soldiers shy from use of the word “love,” mannlichkeit or macho being preferred military characterization. However, one of several Greek definitions of love is agape – the love of one for the many, to the point of willingness by the one to sacrifice for the many, in a context totally different from the suicidal sacrifices characterized by today’s terrorist attacks. In today’s military conversation, a popular description is “cohesion.” It is the same motivation displayed by firefighters, police and emergency-response personnel of many venues in situations in which their lives are at risk on behalf of lives of the many. What I learned in a lifetime in the company of soldier cohorts is what I have come to believe is the Passion of the Christ. A love story.

Donn Story
General, U.S. Army, retired
Fairfax Station, Va.


Missing old rite

Oh, how I do identify with Mary Freel [“Getting things rite,” May]. I so long for the days when we knelt to pray, sat to learn and stood to praise. I also feel a foreigner in my church.

The "peace" is a perfunctory of people I've never seen all touching hands and murmuring, "Peace." I came for peace with my Lord and to worship. I didn't come to greet my neighbor. I can socialize with them at the coffee hour. I came to worship, not pass time with the congregation. My rituals that gave me comfort and joy when I converted have long gone. Thank you, Mary Freel. You expressed my feelings so well. I'd travel a long way to have the old rite once in a while.

Dolores Ellis
Boise, Idaho


Nonjudgmentalism best

Thank you so much for the insight and devotion in Jennifer Phillip’s column, “Withholding judgment” [May].  The words in the article were ones that I have wanted to hear for as long as I've had the ability to understand.

I was raised in a Southern Baptist missionary family.  My mother was an exceptional person who knew her relationship with God and followed his will.  She was aware of her many purposes here and respectfully rejected many trivial opinions of others to alter her course.  I was and will always be so proud of her decisions.  Examples of her witness were the several times that she went to a local bar owned by her friend’s sister.  The lady wasn't a Christian; however, she had an enormous love and respect for my mother because Mom didn't judge or condemn, but loved this lady without reservation just as God directed her to do.

One of the biggest reasons that I've chosen the Episcopal faith is the dedication of this church to respect the dignity of all persons.  I don't believe that God intends or directs his children to judge or condemn his other creations.  Who are we to say that he has made mistakes?  I know that God's plans are too great for me to question.  I pray with the Rev. Phillips that God will help us to remove the blinders we wear in his name and that we will all better understand his love and how to use it.

Paul Clay,
Reno, Nev.


Keep discussing money

In his essay “Obsessed with Money” [April], the Rev. Shane Scott-Hamblen wishes for a day when sermons on money are banned. This is an interesting proposition, though as a church treasurer, it is an idea that, frankly, scares me more than a little bit.

Yes, talking about money in church is problematical, but not talking about it does not necessarily help our spiritual growth. A casual review of Jesus’ parables reveals that money was a topic that he brought up frequently. And the reason for this was that undue concentration on material things distances us from God. It was true 2,000 years ago; it is just as true today.

Ultimately, stewardship is more than keeping the building repaired, the utilities connected and the priests paid. When stewardship is discussed, it should involve more than money. It should remind us that how we relate to God has a lot to do with how we lead our day-to-day lives. Yes, the money is useful, but what makes it useful is that it provides the resources to nurture and expand ministries both within our parish as well as in the community at large. A sermon on stewardship should move us not to give just money, but also our time and talent, along with our treasure, to advance the Kingdom of God. And that is what our lives here are supposed to be about.

Bob Hampton
Fort Worth, Texas


Offering another perspective

In response to the rector’s wife concerned about pay  [letter, “Story is familiar,” April]: While I do know that making $4,000 dollars in the 1960s was not much, and one really had to stretch their dollars, my dad supported a family of seven on $8,000 a year.

He put three children through college without a loan.  My grandmothers lived with us.  Yes, that income is twice that of the writer’s, but it had to cover housing, utilities, car, pension, health insurance, etc.  These expenses were paid for with his income after taxes.  The family of the writer was probably given a rectory, had the utilities paid and was given mileage expenses, insurance and pension all tax free.  Also, during that time merchants often gave discounts to clergy, and the family may have received a holiday monetary gift from the parish.   We gave one to our priest during that time.

This is not to downplay the importance that a priest needs to make a living wage in line with his/her education and responsibilities.  I just wanted to give another side of the story.

Janet Higbie
Indianapolis


Consider new alternatives

I am exasperated and want to speak out about the church's complicity on animal exploitation/suffering/killing. When stories like [“Call of the wild: Where eating out takes on a whole different  meaning,” January] appear in the press, there is a sense of humor interwoven in the words, which I find disappointing, if not mildly offensive.  It shows an ingrained cultural callousness.

I am the U.S. representative for the Anglican Society for the Welfare of Animals. That organization (based in the UK) and a General Convention resolution adopted last summer are little-known in this country. Sometimes I feel like we are up against insurmountable odds, trying to find a way to create a sensitivity within the church about the plight of animals.

Articles like the one about the "wildlife dinners" -- I refer to them as "church-sponsored slaughter-fests for fun and profit" – encourage other churches around the country to have these dinners … as a fund-raising event for some good cause. I have to wonder if that is becoming a horrifying new trend among churches.  I have to wonder why it is so necessary to kill representatives of as many species as possible as an attraction to raise a few dollars per dinner ticket.  Wouldn't it be possible to find enough church members to chip in $5 without feeling that they should get their money's worth feasting on tidbits of deer, buffaloes, elks, fishes and anything else that lives and moves and has its being other than the family pet?

I would like churches to take a look at some of their traditions of fellowship, outreach and fund raising and think about the message they're sending.  And if it isn't a peaceful message, I would ask them to think about alternatives.

Sue Grisham
Waukegan, Ill.


Passion coverage praised

[Re. “The Passion of the Christ,” April] I thoroughly enjoyed this article.  I saw this movie twice.  Three things stand out for me -- the first was the applause in the theater when we see Jesus on the third morning standing triumphant over death.  The second was that almost every person waited until the end of the credits and, when we left, the absolute and total quiet.  Third was that all of us were totally drained and exhausted and overwhelmed.

One of the viewers [quoted] in this article, Michele Morgan, makes the comment that her Jesus is the Prince of Peace and would never stomp on a snake.  I beg to differ with Michele. I refer her to Psalms 91:13. "Thou shalt tread upon the lion and adder."  I was confused about this scene until I went to church that next Sunday and Psalm 91 was read.  However, I missed the nuance that one of your writers, Leonard Freeman, pointed out about Simon of Cyrene and his speech.  I found the scenes between the Virgin Mary and Jesus the most touching -- perhaps because I am a mother and have also had a child return to the Father.  I believe this movie will have a positive effect on many people and will bring many more to Christ.  I, for one, will never view Good Friday the same again.

Thanks again for a great and enlightening article.

Deborah Gallino
Battle Ground, Wash.


Double standard wrong

The April issue of Episcopal Life had a cover article on ethics in business. On page two, there was an article on Suffragan Bishop George Packard's visit to our troops in Iraq. The ethics of our government's presence and actions in Iraq was not discussed.

The cover article was concerned with insider trading and accounting scandals, but made no mention of the accounting scandal of the unfunded Social Security liability, which is so large as to make Enron's lies a rounding error in comparison.

Why is it that Episcopal Life and the Episcopal Church are so free with criticism of the “Market” and so silent with criticism of government? Is it because the Episcopal Church believes that there are two ethical standards, one for individuals and the market and an entirely different one for the government?

St. Paul in his writings advised church members to obey the rulers, but his actions spoke louder than his words. He had the courage to defy the government, to suffer the consequences and to die as a result. I wish I could say the same for the modern Episcopal Church.

Robert E. Jackson
Santa Fe, N.M.


Put trust in God

How very appropriate to have the Rev. Shane Scott-Hamblen’s article, “Obsessed with money: Let church focus instead on sacrifices of the heart” [April], in the same issue that mentions the Episcopal Church and its place in business, and the treacherous path to be walked between God and mammon. Too many of us in our own church lives have experienced priests and bishops who see their work as ecclesiastical CEOs rather than pastors, and have seen how their people have suffered spiritually because of it.

Let us put our trust in God and not in financial princes. He can always be trusted to provide, which is more than can be said of the Dow Jones or the gross national product. Those of us in ministry, whether ordained or lay, must never forget that we are servant-ministers, serving Christ’s beloved laity, not our own financial legacies. "Seek first the Kingdom of God, and then all these things shall be given to you."

Brother Thom-Nicholas
Franciscan Order of Celi De
Alexandria, Va.


Keep Rite I

Why would we forget Rite I [“Getting things rite,” May]? This historic liturgy ties us back to 1549 and back into the tradition of the Western Catholic church. Why would we want to have amnesia of our heritage? All of our liturgies speak to us. Come to think of it -- I can't recall the last time I was at a Rite I service at a convention or an ordination. 

The Rev. Les Singleton
Micanopy, Fla.


Methodist liturgy better

Rite I is in some ways an improvement on 1928, but as Mary Freel points out is now a concession (at the early service) to people of mature years like us.  The revisers also created various Rite 2 liturgies, which have little to recommend them.  Holy Communion, once the high point of the Episcopal ethos, now suffers from constant use.  Morning Prayer is extinct, to my great regret.

What to do?  After more than 80 years as an Episcopalian, I am now a member of a small Methodist parish.  We have Communion on the first Sunday of the month, their version of Morning Prayer the other Sundays.  We have good music, sing good hymns, listen to a rousing sermon, follow a logical order of service.  Much of the service is based on the Anglican liturgy anyway.  Mary Freel and I lost the Episcopal battle years ago.

Thomas W. Streeter
Pacific Grove Calif.